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A drug called ZYPREXA,CAN IT BE POSSIBLE TO CAUSE BLINDNESS? my develepmentally handicapped son was put on this drug because off his abuse to himself hitting banging his head and so forth.this was about 2 years ago now as off the early part off this month he is blind,apparetly his sight was already gone in his left eye and no one knows why.and they discovered he had a fully develeped cateract in his right eye surgury was done and something went wrong and he had 2 more surgurys but they tell me he is totally blind now. I am afraid now that that drug ZYPREXA MAY HAVE CAUSED IT ,DO YOU HAVE ANY ANSWERS FOR ME.Please

JAF replied: "If you look at and then look at the prescribing information (second link below), you can find the package insert (you can also get this from your pharmacist). It lists the following as adverse events that occured during clinical trials of Zyprexa: "Special Senses Frequent: conjunctivitis; Infrequent: abnormality of accommodation, blepharitis, cataract, deafness, diplopia, dry eyes, ear pain, eye hemorrhage, eye inflammation, eye pain, ocular muscle abnormality, taste perversion, and tinnitus; Rare: corneal lesion, glaucoma, keratoconjunctivitis, macular hypopigmentation, miosis, mydriasis, and pigment deposits lens." I assume your son is under the care of a psychiatrist? Your doctor should be aware of possible side effects and can answer more specific questions regarding your son's condition and what may have lead to the cataract formation."

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borderline personality disorder and sexual abuse...please answer there are days were i feel GREAT. there are days were i feel Nothing there are days were i just feel sad like i do today. does this ever stop i feel so sad that i cry inside and nothing happens to be good for me in my life and i have vivid dreams about my abuser that sexually abused me over 15 years ago when i was 11 years old. it was so bad that he held me at gunpoint.. i lost my kids they are in care of the department of child safety and with no contact at all its killing me i hope things get better. it just seems no end at all but to GIVE UP DOES IT GET BETTER? anyone with BPD? its only been 6 months and yet i have improved and my doctors and social worker say so yet i don't feel it like days like to day.. i'm on 20mg of zyprexa and 225mg of effxor xr thanks for lettting me Vent! the sexual abuse is just getting to me i know it was so long ago but it still affects me and me and the social worker are working through it slowley but it was still frighting at 11 years old at gunpoint being raped from both my private area's and made to perform acts on him and it still makes me sick to this day and i still have nightmares about the trauma caused because of him. and i wish things were better between me and my husband but i guess things can't be that way at the moment with BPD i need to learn to live with it first. i have read the books and the movies etc and nothing helps! thanks

Shima42 replied: "I have been diagnosed with BPD, but I feel a lot better now, because I did Dialectical Behavior Therapy. Look into it. I change slowly. It took me five years to decide to go on antidepressants, and five years of switching around to know that meds weren't the answer. My family constantly triggers me, but I only JUST NOW, in the last week, decided to tell them all to go to hell until I can learn to ignore thier behavior. I hate having long hair, but I only recently decided to cut it all off because I realized that keeping it long in case I found a man was stupid and self-hating. Everyone's journey is different. The one thing that I KNOW will help you is DBT. And don't learn to live with it. Conquer it. You are not a disease."

shallengoddess replied: "I'm not too informed about the BPD, heck I might even have it myself. But what I do know is it's not an easy road. Just for the moment, think of things you are thankful for. Genuinely give thanks, even just in your head, for something or someone. do the books and movie include "The Courage To Heal?" and the workbook that goes with it? It helped me re-focus off of my past rapes and make a safe place to deal with it. also, you can look up Rape Trauma Syndrome, Post-Tramatic Stress Disorder, and one web site, for future reference is "aftersilence". I wish you the best, and try not to stop your treatment and any kinds of therapy. I just got Child Protective Services out of my life and let me tell you, it's not gonna be easy, but you know it's worth it."

love_hate_187 replied: "Things will get better - they only do! You can never stop believing in the goOdness of life - the goodness of you - Its so hard to stay positive - but its like 'training' - the more you believe in yourself to persevere through each day - the easier each day will become - One thing at a time...one day at a time.. When everything starts to unwravel - just remember where you've come from - and where you want to be - Don't take your mind off it for a second... Gotta Focus your energy into something positive - no matter how hard it is - the payoff is priceless! one thing at a time... just one thing.. You need to work through your issues slowly - and talk about this with somebody - maybe your husband? maybe he doesn't know how to help you? but this could be a way... If the meds are working - wonderful! don't be afraid to ask your pharmacist what he thinks! i am a pharmacy technician - its good to make sure of the hefty side affects and combinations - and they could work differently in your body. Your body holds stress- from all your years! 'memory cells' if you'd be open - I would suggest having a 'bio feedback' done - this is more along the lines of a 'herbal healing' treatment center - some sort of wellness center - also something called an 'energy healing' its so wonderful - my family and i have been going for quite some time off and on - should look into it possibly? - Know yourself, Love yourself - and let yourself live - slow but sure! you'll find your happy medium"

Starbright replied: "Sometimes we fight it when we feel sad. Like it is wrong to feel anything other than happy. I think its ok to feel sad! You have some good reasons for getting upset! Perhaps if you look at it that way, you wont beat yourself up and you won't try to fix it, like trying to think different or trying to get your husband to help you feel better. Just tell yourself its ok to feel sad about your past, your current situation. Give yourself a hug. You have quite the challenge trying to deal with bpd. I know meds can take a while to start helping so hang in there with that. Perhaps you could do what the japanese do and get two ducks when the couple is getting along they face each other when they are not getting along, they turn the ducks back to back. Perhaps you could have some symbol that you could have like that. It's ok to grieve, then on the better days you can rejoice. I sense that your putting pressure on yourself. I don't know if any of this is helping you, I am sorry that I dont know exactly what to say. I think its good that you have counselors. Take care."

BPD and medication..zyprexa...? Hi, i have been dignosed with BPD. and i was put on 20mg of zyprexa and recently told too drop my dose to 15mg and i was in tears and down and crying all the time so we rang him and he said to put it back to 20mg and he said he thought it would happen . why let me try to put the dosage down if he knew it would happen! any tips or idea's what i should do.? and idea what i could do to make me happy everyday i miss my babies and cry alot of the time i'm on efexor xr 225mg as well and i have ptsd, my kids were taken because of mental illness any help appreicated and i was sexually abused when i was 11 years old.. it still annoys me and i get sad everyday! Lollie xx

Intheloop replied: "I am sorry you are having such a bad time. Your BPD is likely to be a result of your childhood sexual abuse, as is your PTSD. It is very important that you have a very good therapist who is very knowledgable about sexual abuse, and can help you to get good treatment for the PTSD. It is sometimes difficult to get the doseage right for these sorts of drugs, so you need to keep working with your doctor or your therapist. It would be good for you to work with someone who can help you to re-structure your life a bit, so there might be a possibility of your having some contact with your kids in a safe environment (safe for you and safe for them). See if you can talk to a social worker at a women's health centre."

KathieJo replied: "There is no medication that "cures" BPD. The medication is for the other problems that you have. The BPD is a result of the abuse you suffered...as is the PTSD. I am sorry about the loss of your children and the pain you have suffered. May God bless and keep you safe. Stay on your medication and keep seeing your therapist. Life may not be perfect, but it's what we do with it that counts! kjl"

rajb1037 replied: "THIS isn't helping you. I'm sorry to be blunt or rude here, but sympathizing with you when you engage in this sort of behavior is not truly helping you. I've been on the treating/clinical side of this, so I can give you some insight if you really want it. So, you want to know why your doctor would do that? Why he said he expected it..? Simple: It takes weeks for a dose change of Zyprexa to truly take effect and for you to really feel the change, especially with such a minor change. In other words, the levels of Zyprexa in your system and the effect DID NOT REALLY CHANGE when he lowered the dose, as it would have taken well over a month to truly know if the lower dose was more appropriate. Now he knows exactly what role the medication was playing and how many of your problems are behavioral versus medical. We both know exactly why you reacted like that to a lowered dose, and we both know why you're coming online and telling as many people as you can as many sad details of your life as you can. I'll leave it at that to save you embarrassment. This is exactly the sort of pattern of behavior you're trying to overcome. I'm sorry your childhood was the way that it was, but no one can help you until you're ready to help yourself. What you're doing now is not helping. You need to speak ONLY with your psychiatrist and psychologist about these issues and stick with a very strict, structured treatment program if you truly want to overcome this."

I have borderline personality disorder and Ptsd , and today I feel so bummed out Hello I have borderline personality disorder and Ptsd , and today I feel so bummed out I am on medication for depression effexor XR 225mg and Zyprexa 20mg, I see my social worker twice a week and my psychiatrist once a month, But today I have mopped around all day I couldnt get motivated at all I just feel like its and a end and the sexual abuse gets too me cause I cant help thinking about it all the time my husband has been trying all day to make me happy and nothing has worked so far! Thanks for letting me vent. What should I do to get motivated? What do I do to get happy? What should I do too fix my problem?

wordnerd27x replied: "You don't have to feel happy everyday. You do need to go on with life, everyday, whether happy or not. Just remember that. Sometimes part of you might even enjoy being unhappy or bathing in self-pity. Try to identify when/if that happens and try to let go of that part."

cupboardmouse replied: "Can you join a group therapy day programme? They will probably have something at the hospital. You go daily and do group activities - it is not as bad as it sounds and you would be surprised at the range of people who go. They teach you skills like how to goal set and self motivation, relaxtion etc and you can quickly apply the learning to your own life. Having somewhere to go and 'work on' your issues is useful - especially for days when you feel bummed out as you say. It gives you a postive focus for your recovery - rather then feeling like you are waiting around doing nothing between appointments. I have not long started attending a programme and I find it is good - I feel like I am actively getting somewhere where as before whatever I did was dependant on my mood but now I go to the programme - no matter what mood I am in and work with it. Ask your social worker/therapist. I have the same diaognosis as you PTSD and BPD as well as depression and anxety mixed in for good measure so I do relate somewhat to how you are feeling. It is bloody hard work."

Jennie S replied: "Hi there, I have BPD too, The mood swings are a part of it, I know it's not easy and can be frustrating, Maybe going for a walk might help?.I know it's awful feeling low, but I find accepting it's just how you feel right now and it will pass helps, try not too pick on yourself or force yourself to be happy, it's ok to feel sad sometimes. You have to feel the rain to apreaciate the sunshine. All the very best to you, takecare."

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Rheanna R replied: "i think the best thing to do would be to talk to people that have experianced sexual abuse as well. I would also suggest to stop seing a therapist. Sometimes they can just make you think about what happened more and more. Try to forgive the person that did this to you."

Lori D replied: "you have alot going on in your life nobody expects you to feel happy or pleased with yourself everyday! just take each day as it comes and see how you feel tomorrow good luck x"

stargazer replied: "I have BPD too, and have been in therapy for a while and still have these same problems from time to time. It's part of the illness. Why not try replacing a thought with another? There is no way to "get" happy. The happiest people are the ones that accepts things the way they are, without trying to change things they can do nothing about. Maybe try thinking about what you do have rather than things you don't. It sounds like your husband's a pretty decent guy, spending all day trying to make you happy. Some spouses lose patience and get angry when the other has a hard time."

Friend contemplating suicide, asked for help. What do I do? I have a friend who took a lot of Zyprexa last night, she said she took what she had left....9 40mg pills. She was hoping it would kill her but she ended up passing out and puking all night and more again this morning. But she called me and said she wants help and wants me to go somewhere with her. Should I just take her to the ER? A treatmeant center? She does not abuse drugs normally....she does party and drink a lot. She has had a lot of past issues and this recent event was due to her boyfriend breaking up with her, among other things. She is 27 and had "attempted" suicide several times....all I think more cries for help. But since she asked me to take her somewhere I want to make sure its the right place. I know she wont do in-patient treatment....and I am not sure if she will even stick with any type of program. If I take her to the ER will they force her to stay since she took a bunch of pills? It was last night so I dont know if they will make her stay or not. HELP!

boysmom replied: "I'm not sure if they will keep her or not, but please do anything you can to help her. Even if people are joking around about it, it becomes such a repeated thought that they actually end up doing it. She needs some sort of help, maybe "starting over" in a new city or something to get things off of her mind."

no one special replied: "Take her to the Emergency room immediately or better yet call an ambulance and explain to them what she told you. It is a desperate cry for help and while I am sure you are a good friend, she needs more help than you can give her. Be there for her regardless and please don't pass judgment."

I'm from UK replied: "Just because she took the pills last night does not mean that they want still kill her. They could have done damage. You need to get her to hospital ASAP. Sort out all the other stuff later. Cross that bridge, as they say, when you come to it."

Allan C replied: "I would take her to the emergency room. No one can make her do anything,if she really wants help and she keeps coming to you, you need to tell them everything they need to know, actually tell them everything you know. They will probably put her in inpatient for her safety, but as a Friend that is your responsibility. How would you feel if you did nothing and she succeeded in killing herself. She might be mad for awhile but soon she will thank you for everything."

tellme replied: "try a suicide hot line and see if they have a list of a local help group"

beth_a_hobbs replied: "i think you should take her to the er and talk to her while your going there might be another reason behind why she did it. they might not make her stay but they will make her talk to some while she is there. they will have alot of diffrent options about what she should do."

christina c replied: "ASAP take to nearest ER and have her admitted for treatment anyaone wanting to commit suicude is not in their right mind and needs immediate help. the only way to get that help is to go into the psychiatric ward. to wait any longer could be to late to help her."

Stacy W replied: "okay i wish my husband would have asked for help... he tryed to kill himsefl 2 times now and the last time was him telling the cops to kill him. right now he is in the state hospital... call the police and ask them if they have an emerency counsler or take her to the local health department and tell them she needs help most of them have consulers. she might have to go somewhere for a few days but to get better she needs long term care. she will hate it but it will be best for her. my husband hates it and i hate seeing him there but there i nothing i can do and that is all i can tell you to do for your friend explain to her that she needs long term care and maybe not that long a week or two unless they think she will still hurt herself. and stay by her side she will need you more then ever... if you need more info or someone to help you find a place to turn email me "

Breene replied: "Please call 1-800-SUICIDE. Even if you are not the person who is contemplating suicide, they can still be a very valuable resource for you. They can help you understand what will happen if you take your friend to an ER. They will be able to explain some of your treatment options, what is effective, and what you can do to help support your friend. Please call. They are a better resource than anyone on this site because you can explain all of the specific details about your unique situation. 1-800-SUICIDE"

wingsgirl4ever replied: "Because she is an adult you can suggest that she gets help but you can make her. She has to decide that she needs help & thatshe has a problem & she needs to check herself in to a crisis center for help. Tell her that you care about her & don't want to come over 1 day & find her dead. That you want her to get help if not for herself then tell her to do it for you & your freindship. She needs professional help & soon, because the next times she attempts suicide she just might succeed."

babecrave s replied: "She needs to be evaluated by a mental health professional. She is spiraling downward and trying to control her emotions with drugs and alcohol. Basically, she is self-medicating. If it takes a 72 hour hold to save her life, then so be it. Take her yourself and stay with her for as long as possible at the hospital. She needs a wakeup call that she has a mental illness and she needs the proper diagnosis and stabilizing medication. You have the chance to be a true friend here. Do the right thing."

goth chick replied: "she needs to be put in a pshyciatric ward. they help. or she should see a psyciatrist. just help her!!! she needs u...and the support. get her help."

Advice on r/ship With Non BPD Partner? I have been diagnosed with BPD, and have been medicated with 20MG Zyprexa and 225MG Xffxor xr. I also was sexually abuse as a child, which I had repressed till my BPD was diagnosed and medicated. Now before being medicated my relationship with my partner (beside the normal BPD outbreaks) was good. I felt like cuddling, kissing and Touching each other. We would have sex a least once a day, and it wasn't always him starting it. I felt that way about him. Since taking my medication, I've lost all that, its an effort to have sex, though I want him, It just find it hard to have the sex that goes along with it. We do have sex very rarely now, and when we do I just want to get it over and done with. I do get a little orgasm. But want it over and done with. Theres no making out or kissing even though he tries. I like it when he hugs me, but I find it hard to hug him first or hug him back. I know I love him, but whats wrong with me. Is it my medication? Thanks Thanks for the answers Guys!!

pasac13 replied: "look up the side effects of the medication or talk to your doctor that prescribed it and tell him what's going on. you should talk to a psychologist about being sexually abused if you haven't already because maybe that will help you overcome BPD"

i dont know who i am? replied: "I'm not sure about which one it is but one of my meds decreases my sex drive I'm guessing zyprexa coz where both on that one"

How do I deal with crazy ex husband? My ex husband was diagnosed as being bi-polar in '01. He was given Depakote and Zyprexa, and took them for only about a week, and then never went back to the Dr. So in '04 I finally had enough of the physical and mental abuse, and I moved to TN with my children. He soon followed and has made my life a living hell. He is obsessed with me. The worst part is, he is getting worse. There is a protective order on him, but his lawyer has got him off on all 8 violations to the order. He says things that are UNTRUE but he actually believes them!! It is so strange. He tld me today that I said last week, that we can still "do it" every once in a while. OMG! I was in shock. He said he already paid me this week, but he didn't. He came to the house and was all over me so I threw him out, but he doesn't remember that part, he sd he paid me..he did not! I don't know what to do. He needs to be committed but I can't do it cause I m not the wife. How do I get him in there if he won't go? Please Help!

jaynell replied: "First of all, he doesn't "PAY you", he pays the child support for his KIDS!"

wonderfultonite replied: "if he is your ex legally keep on calling the police on him until they di something it may take a few times but they have to do something see if there is a free legal aid in your area they do not help in my try some womens abuse hotlines maybe they can help you i am sorry for your heartache it is one i also share with you my husband is bi polar and it is a living hell take care"

Truth Hurts replied: "Sounds like a man that could cross the line. Maybe you should consider moving somewhere where he can't find you. It could be a matter of life or death."

Chekota G replied: "Sounds to me like you might have to get his family in on this. They are the ones that can get him the help he needs. If there's no family then everytime he comes over to your house, you need to call the police and let them know how scared you are. You are not dealing with a mentally sane person here, so there's no reasoning with him. Every time the police are called there will be a police report filed and that will help you in court. But you have to do something before he loses it altogether. Be careful and good luck."

JustAHunch replied: "You understand that your ex is mentally ill, right? Get your lawyer to send him a letter that he is "stalking you." Under the new stalking laws he can go to jail for that. Once in jail, he will be evaluated and, hopefully, they will put him back on his meds and he'll feel and act better. Change the locks on your doors and do not let him in...EVER. Talk to him by phone only. If he has visitation with the children, ask the court to only let him visit under "supervision." It is not safe to leave your children alone with him. Call Social Services to protect them, if you must."

tannerlady replied: "Mine is not bipolar just having a mid-life crisis, has been trying to be 23 instead of 53, found out he was not as young as he thought had a heart attack and now girlfriend is gone, he's no fun anymore and doesn't have as much money to spend on her. You really need to get police and anyone else you can involved, this man is dangerous to you and maybe your kids. Good Luck, I hope everything works out for you and your kids."

samb2468 replied: "pack up your things come here Florida me /you well start new life OK Im 54 years old i no how too take care of a lady thats for sure SAM."

For the pass six months I wish to end my life. How pathetic can I be? genuinely I have countless mood swings every day. I dont understand what to expect from myself. You see Ive been on the medications Zyprexa which is applied for schizophrenic patients along with Citolopram which is an anti depressant. The dosage on the Zyprexa is 10mg per tablet additionally 20mg per tablet for the anti depressant. Im 24 years of age. I am Male in gender. I was sexually abused when I was eight to nine years of age however I have come open with my secret which I hid for over a decade with a mental health doctor along with my probation officer. Im divorced with two lovely children but I do not see them on a regular base. Once a month I reckon. Honestly I do not believe Im schizophrenic but I believe those medication is seriously affecting my head. I have always had my own thoughts and conversations within my head since I was an infant but never mentioned this aspect of my life to anyone. You see when I do not use my medication; Ive started hearing voices in my head. Honestly I am not lying. These voices are getting worse and it is not passing good advice to me. It always mentions suicide like it is a way out of my life. Im to totally confuse with who I am. Since youth I have always been shy but ever since I started abusing alcohol (Vodka) along with drugs (Cocaine & Cannabis) on a daily base, I feel as though I can communicate and feel normal in society. You see what my real concerns is the fact that when I think of suicide, I am not doing it for attention or seeking help. I really do want to end the misery of my useless life. I know this question is long and boring but it seems yahoo is the only place where I can express my feelings and thoughts. So sorry for being a a**. Ive been to the doctors and probation and I feel there is no point of discussing my pathetic life and it seems to me they do not deserve to be burden with my life and issues. Recently Ive been angry, depressed, suicidal, careless, reckless along with many other characters. What shall I do? Honestly I feel in shambles but I just want everything to end. Only serious people who care and dont offend me because I cant handle verbal abuse and slanderers.

Steamer replied: "It sounds more like bipolar disorder (manic depression) instead of schizophrenia. If you were able to speak honestly to a psychiatrist and they were able to medicate you properly, you could alleviate many of the symptoms that you describe. Please seek another for help. If you get these symptoms taken care of then I believe you can find a competent counselor to help with the remaining issues."

lbaker2656 replied: "You need to see a doctor and get referred to a counsellor. No-one on here is qualified to help you. I know this answer doesnt really help, but its all I can advise. Good luck"

D. D replied: "Not pathetic. see a doctor, get some help."

angelschild77 replied: "I must be honest; I didn't understand all of what you're saying there. It's a little hard to follow and sounds a *little* like rambling. But rambling can be good, so ramble on. 1. Maybe you have Borderline Personality Disorder... it kinda sounds like it, and it's hard to catch. Mostly because a bunch of doctors either don't believe in it or consider it taboo. 2. Have you told anyone about this OTHER than your Yahoo Answers friends? That's something you should talk to with a person-person, not an internet-person (if that makes sense...). It doesn't have to be a doctor... it could be a friend, family member, I don't know... a pastor? Someone who will listen. 3. If you really start LISTENING to this evil voice that keeps suggesting suicide, call 911 or a suicide hotline asap. I don't care how they react, really, just calling them often helps the urge. 4. Maybe it's all a reaction to the drugs (pre ion, I mean) you're taking. I have a friend who reacted similarly to another drug. Maybe it's that. 5. Sometimes you can "talk" yourself out of these phases. If you KNOW that the voice in your head isn't you, tell it so and start ignoring it. Don't even acknowledge it when it starts talking. Accept that it's talking s*** and go on with your life. It'll be annoying, but maybe it'll go away, like a bully or bad habit. 6. Maybe get a pet. Pets are cool, and they're a perfect distraction from evil-voices-in-head/suicidal-tendencies. Or just bad days. Or a new hobby, to make your "useless life" (as you put it), more worth living. Go to a church. Start playing some sort of sport. Draw. Learn an instrument. Visit your kids more often... take them out somewhere fun, and enjoy it! :-) I hope that helps... be strong. don't give up."

Julie W replied: "what i think is that you must be tremendously strong to have dealt with a difficult childhood like that. It must be very hard on you. In my school there was a 16 year old student who committed suicide. the school was like a ghost town for several days. people who didnt even know him where effected. Of course i can't imagine how you feel but I would just like to tell you that suicide is not the right answer. no matter how hard your life is at the moment you are only 24 and have so much more ahead of you. I've heard by several people that sport can help your mental and physical health. Maybe if you dont already do that you should try. I really hope this answer will help you. But please remember if there are voices in your head telling you to do something you shouldn't don't listen to them no matter how loud they are try your hardest to blot them out. Suicide will obviously end your misery but think about all your family and loved ones and how it will effect them. again i can't even imagine how you feel but you are still young and things will get better for you. Even though i don't know you I truly hope you get better and if you have a possitive attitude you will. And also don't forget to pray (if you feel like it helps) God will help you get better I'm sure of it. Well i hope that answer helped you. (: <3"

jae2010 replied: "what you need is not a way out of your life but a way in. when we look at the problems that we have caused in our past, we can only look up in fear because they all seem to acumulate into a mountain. having a mental disease is no easy thing, i have lived it because my family has a hereditary depression that even i have fallen into. its no easy thing going through life and thinking that if you were gone that instant, noone would miss you. but you have to understand that no matter how much we want a way out(i have considered it before too) we need to work our way into having a way into our lives so that we may fix the damage we have cause. you could start by droppin the alchohol and drugs.(i dont really understand how skistophrenia works, but apperently you just want to shut those voices up) well then give them something to be quiet about. i am sure that the moment that you start to move your life around, those voices will leave you in peace because no matter what they say, they wont beat you anymore. why dont you try looking for love again(im assuming that you dont have one now because you didnt mention her) even if you deny it now, being in love just gives you another reason to live because you are just thinking about that person and you want to be with her. about your question, you are not pathetic. why do people think that when they have problems they are automatically pathetic. you can also start by tellin your voices that you arent pathetic. tell yourself that you were wrong by ever puttin yourself down. when life gives you a challenge dont just allow yourself to not try. it is the mazes in life that make us smarter and stronger. i can tell you all of this but i cant go over there and move you around. you are going to have to be the one that decides what's going to be of your life. i can beg an orange tree for an orange but unless i water it and feed it plant food and take care of it, it wont give me the orange i want. but dont be afaid if you start to make changes and they dont go as fast as you would want them to or as easy. when we were born, we didnt come with a manual, we are gonna have to take in experience from others to work toward our manual. im not guaranteeing an easy task ahead of you but if you dont try how do you know that it wouldnt have worked? it will work just have faith and hope in Jesus. he promised that he would make our burdon light, so why not trust him with that job. pray and communicate to God, even he told us how do you want blessings if you dont ask for them.(there is nothing too big or too small for God) if you fall, you get back up. thats the way it works and dont be discouraged because there are many many people who are down right now. just prove to yourself that you can get up again and that you wont let anything knock you down anymore. i really hope that you can give life another chance because life is never constant and what can be bad now, tomorrow will be full of blessings. hope everything goes fine and you do have strength, you just have to learn how to use it in your favor."

alex hephaestion replied: "when people say see a doctor they are very general about this i want to try and help you by suggesting you see a psycologist [NOT a psyciatrist] who specialise in child abuse cases if you were in the UK i could recomened a few You seem to be following a path that is quite normal for adults who were abused as a child getting help from a psycologist will allow you to talk about your experiences in a safe envioroment will allow you to open up and talk about the real issue many who were abused as children find it hard to communicate and it will take a long time for you to find the the key which will unlock everything for you. it will not be easy BUT at the end of the long dark tunnel you will get better and you will understand. you will never lose the memories which no doubt you can recall now as if it had happened yesterday but you will be able to handle them and the pain that is caused by those memories will eventually fade. I suggest a psycolosgist because they do not use drugs to induce a state which may help the doctor instead they ask you to talk. you may hate them after a while because your talks reach a point where you have to go to a place which is painful for you but they are there and you are safe. Remember that you are not alone in this world and that the person or people who did this to you wanted you to feel alone and helpless so that you had no other options available to you other than negative ones. trust me when i say there are many people out there who have suffered the same fate as you and many who have reached the other side of that dark tunnel i am sure with help you will be able to do the same a note here many people will suggest religion as a cure for all but that is not an answer it is another way out. this is not about god or jesus anymore this is about you. if you find solace in religion then fine but do not let religion distract you from the path you have to go which is uderstanding why. remember this is YOUR time this is the point you have reached where it is time to do something about this once and for all and more over you cannot do it alone you are not alone trust me on that."

Please help with my problems .. i just want to end it all? Hi all I have been feeling really low about the abuse I have endured as a child it really gets to me at night so I try to sleep it off but tonight I aint sleeping and I dont feel so well I was sexually abused as a child at gunpoint and molested by a family friend and he held me at gunpoint and this really gets to me at night time. How do you get over sexual abuse? I know my therapist tells me to try and do sketch drawing and diary input but sometimes things get so hard and complicated at night I just want all the memories to stop! I just dont need the sexual abuse to come up I think I suffer enough having BPD and PTSD and if anyone wants to know I see a social worker 2 times a week and my psychiatrist once a month ! and Im on waiting list for group therapy! Im also medicated on 20mg of zyprexa and 225mg of effexor XR and how does this work how do I get better when I cant take it anymore all the hurt gets to me and you get to a point where you are at breaking point and everything around you is dying? Like you dont care anymore ? and you lost any sense of living ? Why did this happen to me? Why did he have to hurt me WHY? What he did to me has Ruined my life and I pay for it each day .. I sit in my stupid cabin each day paying the price and he gets to roam free its like Im in jail not him, What can I do to make it stop? I just keep having flashbacks! And to top that off the medications have made me retain weight that gets too me and I try to eat as healthy as possible and get out as much as I can its just so depressing im a larger size lady I use to be a small lady but now Im a size 24 and no matter what I do I cant loose weight I am on a strict diet as it is and still I dont loose it but my doctor said its the medication iam on. And to top everything else off I have lost my children cause of my illness and what really annoys me I was assessed in 2004 and all I got was may have a personality disorder but no one ever followed it up until I seen my psychiatrist in 2008 which diagnosed me with BPD and PTSD and the cause of this illness I put my dog in a freezer and that really plays on my mind Please help! i put my dog in the freezer as i wanted to hurt him and show him the pain i went through but i left him in there too long and he died. it really makes me sad that i did this i see my social worker and we are working through all these issue's and we use Cognitive behavior therapy and i will be asking for DBT as well.. and i didn't mean to kill my dog i just forgot he was there and i was undiagnosed back in 2004 when it happened and now in 2008 i know what i have got and me and my professionals are working on it all. I live in the City of Brisbane (AU). Its a cabin in a caravan park. I live with my husband of 4 years who I hadn't meet when the stuff with dog happened. We go to church, and see his family, because my mum is caring for the children, so I dont get to see her as much. It's very complicated.but i never meant to hurt my dog he was my best friend but it happened and i forgot he was in the freezer

Scooty replied: "I freaking LOVE dog-cicles"

Kelly A replied: "why would you put your dog in the freezer?"

private replied: "Pleace call with any problem, anytime: Girls and Boys Town "National Hotline" Phone: 1-800-448-3000 (toll free) Email:"

anon_guy_anon replied: "My ex used to have the same problem or at least similar. She got over it from seeing a therapist. If your therapist can't help then see another one. She said her problem was largely caused by over thinking."

Porcelain replied: "well, first of all, as you said, he held you to gunpoint so it wasn' t your fault. why beat yourself up like that? look ahead and don't look back. If you get flashbacks try and think about something else, or buy a punching bag and let out all your anger."

Doc. justasinner111 replied: "Try to understand,there is a whole bunch of people that have problems too.You are not alone. We must continue to keep on keeping on dispite troubles. The best way to overcome deppression is to help someone.Volunteer at a V.A. or Rest Home."

WILNA S replied: "Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Why on earth would you put your dog in a freezer? You know what i dont get? I have been molested and sexualy abused myself, but i got on with my life, why cant some people just not come over it? The world is tough honey, and you have to show other people that you are tough, only you can help yourself. Stop hurting other people cause your weak. Stand up for yourself."

rfc73 replied: "You need to find some peace and love yourself again first. I'm certainly not a preacher but I would highly recommend you attend your nearest buddhist retreat or monestary. They will help you, not manage you, judge you or write you a pre ion. Give it a go. Good luck. "

barbara g replied: "It sounds to me that you are suicidal or on the verge of being suicidal. You need to be honest with your therapist about this. I too have bipolar disordar and was molested and raped at a young age. However I have never gotten as low as you apparently are now. I'm not sure what will help, so I am not going to presume to tell you. It does sound like that you are not on the right medication. But that is my personal opinion. And maybe the therapist you are seeing isn't the right one for you. If you know who attacked you why is he walking free? It sounds like you reported this. You said you are in a cabin, sounds like you are out in the country, maybe too far away from people and you should be closer to your family and friends so that you can socialize. It's better to be around people, not necessarily to talk about your situation,(unless you want to), but so you can think about other things, like crafts, activities, or just getting out and doing things. Yes you may have to make yourself just go at first, but you may find you like it. Where are you, state? I live in Troy, Mi. There are many different kinds of therapists here."

cee bees replied: "Don't let him hold you prisoner anylonger, and believe me, if he thinks he got away with it-God has a way of taking care of people like that. Consider your flashes and what you would do to take care of that little girl, do what you have to do for that little girl to get better-treat yourself good and however you possibly can free yourself. This may seem way out there but-as it is a Christian's way of dealing with it- forgive him-this is not for his benefit-but to untie you from his grip-then turn him over to God. Tell God that you forgive him (by faith of course-although we don't always feel it) and ask him to help you deal with all that unforgiveness that built up all those years. By cutting yourself out of the equation-God can step into the situation. If you could seek after God that would be good. As far a the dog-forgive yourself-you were sick. Wouldn't you forgive your children if they came to you with their issues-forgive yourself. ANd if guilt plagues you-ask God to forgive you. Somethings we have no control over those things done to us when we were vulnerable-but one thing you do have-the way you treat yourself. You are important and special and should be treated that way-if not by anyone else but YOU. God bless you, I pray that you get better."

scales_d replied: "i was abused as well got beaten everyday. It is hard and but I think you are doing a good things group therapy is very good i had it and a year of therapy with someone. I get depressed sometimes still but nothing like i did and have more self respect for myself as i relise i carried alot of the blame of the past and anger. I have forgiven bitterness is a killer when we are angry we destroy relationships around us you must forgive for your own sake and place the blame where it truly lies with these people. It was very scary what you went through and wrong, you were just a child. They will have to face the wrath of God when the book of life is opened and they are judged by God unless they are truly sorry. I think you should let go of the past as much as you can and look at the positive in yourself concetrate on the people who do like and accept you and not those pigs who were selfish and never gave a damm. I admire you for having the courage for wanting therapy and it will do you good. Take more care yourself treat your body with respect it has not been treated well in the past but this is the present. read the bible learn more about how God loves you. you will feel better about yourself because its what has really helped me in this life. You belong to god you are his child now and he was the one who chose you to be born and can bring healing to your life and one day you will help others who have sufferred. You have so much to offer and so important jesus died for you so take care and learn to love and be postive about yourself. its a hard journey but well worth it. love and God blessing to you and forgive yourself as well, we have all done wrong things we are ashamed of in our pasts when god forgives he forgets."

justice_for_derry replied: "Candice, Sexual abuse is never easy to get over, but it can be conquered with a lot of hard work. This is where DBT will be helpful with regulating emotions and distress tolerance until you can let go of what happened -- something I know is not easy. While I was not held at gunpoint, I was repeatedly molested by my father and told that my Mom would never believe me and wouldn't love me if I told. I was the angry borderline person...so I can relate to wanting to end it all -- and remember that those feelings are also part of the disorder -- the desire to self-injure or suicidal ideation. I think you need to remember that you are in a fragile place right now and be gentle with yourself and remember that it took a long time to get to where you are now, and it does take time to get over a past of abuse and the first thing you have to do is forgive yourself -- you are not at fault. Why he did it? You may never know...he was an a**hole who took advantage of a kid, but you need to let go of the why and deal with you. You can heal....you are a lot stronger than you give yourself credit for. Please forgive yourself for being abused and love yourself..that is the first big step in letting go and healing, from someone who has been there. You will get there, I promise! Feel free to email me from the contact page if you want to do so."

Just4Nic replied: "I'm so sorry to hear all that you have experienced! And grateful to hear that you have people in your life trying to help you cope with your memories. I think healing works like everything else in life, you have to take it one day at a time. And don't let a couple of bad days/nights get you too down. Focus on trying to do one thing at a time, even though they all seem connected, just work on one at a time. Like, work on yourself and recovering from your abuse before bringing in your children or your weight. Try to prioritize your goals and work from there. Once you are mentally healthy it'll be much easier for you to tackle your other goals. While I was in therapy for sexual abuse I did journal as your therapist recommended. Obviously, that doesn't work for everyone, but it was really good for me to be able to truly see all the defeating things I said to myself while I was feeling my lowest. Being able to look back, calmly and rationally, the next day at the things I wrote really helped me to see what were the real issues that I needed to work on, and where I was struggling the most. It was also very helpful for my psychiatrist to see all my darkest places, and not just my "counselling" face. And I constantly reminded myself that winning the battle over mental illness, means simply surviving it! Not caving into that temptation to simply end the pain, meant I was stronger than I gave myself credit and made me victorious each and everyday! Let the people around you who care about you know specifically how they can help. Loved ones always want to help, but don't often know how too, you telling them specifically what works for you and what doesn't is vital, and don't be afraid to share with them! Have an emergency number on hand for those nights when you feel your worst. Whether it's a family member, a girlfriend, a professional or a hotline, use it when you need to! My therapists recommended several great books/workbooks to me, and I used them all! They've since been passed off to other friends who also experienced sexual abuse, ask your psychiatrist what he/she recommends. (www.focusonthefamily.org also has great online resources and a 1-800-line) Your recovery is a process you have to work through, on your own time. You have suffered great loss and trauma, and you have to embrace that. It's okay to be angry, and it's okay to grieve for what was taken from you. Give yourself credit for working hard in therapy, and just do your best each day, knowing that some days will be better than others. It sounds like you have a good professional support system, just be honest with them and open to their suggestions, have patience and belief in yourself. Look for all the tiny victories in your daily life. Remember, it takes more courage to ask for help and admit you can't do something by yourself than to simply try to deal on your own! Best of luck to you and may God Bless you. Encourage your loved ones, the ones closet to you to also reach out for support. They can be a better support for you when they are being cared for emotionally as well."

shaneris5 replied: "Asking why is something you could do for years, with no result. Instead, ask what best to do about it. Some (modified) previous answers follow: See Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, at in section 33, (page i first) and examine the website, and use the locators in sections 33 - 34, and section 1, and phone book, and/or various associations for psychiatrists and psychologists, to find the nearest one using EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing therapy). BPD is addressed in section 15, at ezy-build. Be aware that, because of their upbringing, people suffering from BPD (see section 15, at ezy build) tend to see things in terms of black and white, rather than shades of grey, and often idealise, then devalue, in relationships. They also tend to have a great fear of abandonment, and sometimes go to extreme lengths to prevent it. Use the locators, in section 1, at ezy build, and the phone book, to find a therapist who uses Dialectical Behavio(u)ral Therapy, or get a good book on the subject, and give to a therapist using Cognitive Behavio(u)ral Therapy (fairly common, and probably nearby) and ask that it be incorporated into your treatment. Read "I hate you: don't leave me." by Jerold J. Kreisman, m.d. and Hal Stras. A workbook that offers good coping skills is Marsha Linehan's Skills Training Manual (a DBT Workbook). Try for these. When you notice something negative, such as: "I'm never going to get over this!" or: "Why am I always so pathetic/useless/such a loser?" or even: "I can't do this/will never get over this!", or a disturbing image, recognise that this is part of the mindset which will hold you back from progressing in your recovery. Having identified and labelled it, visualise a large red "STOP!" sign, and/or possibly a stern faced person wagging an index finger at you in a negative manner, then say to yourself as forcefully as you can, even aloud in a big voice, if alone: "I know this tactic: GO AWAY FOR A WHILE !!!" You may want to use either: "ruse", "ploy", "game", or "trick", instead of "tactic". In the case of an image, visualise a large "STOP" sign, or your preferred version. Some people go so far as to keep a wide rubber band in their pocket, then put it around their wrist, when they catch themselves backsliding, stretch and release it, as a method of reprogramming their mind sooner, but I don't regard it as being strictly necessary. Remember to remove it, afterwards, if you use this method. Use the above when thoughts of the dog come to mind. EFT first! DBT second. Your current methods will take much longer, if they work at all. Go to: & & & & &"

Borderline personality disorder. Please help me? Well today I felt okay until tonight I have been hearing and seeing things that arent really thereI dont know whats going on? I took a dizapan to calm me down my psychiatrist prescribed them for me and my head is spinning and I cant stop this sickness feeling in my stomach.. Tm on meds 20mg of zyprexa and 225mg of effexor XR. Why is this happing to me . Just when you think things are getting better? I see a social worker twice a week and my psychiatrist once a month And my GP when I need to see him. Please help me understand why im seeing things that arnt really here and hearing things that arent real! and i do Cognitive behaviour therapy and do sketch book drawings and diary input as advice of my social worker for my sexual abuse therapy as well. please can someone give me some answers Britney Thanks for all the help! i get these feelings of hearing and seeing things that arnt real they stay around and some days these last for a few days... i guess i will bring it up with my psychatrist... my psychatrist said i last time i was suffering from a pseudo psychosis.?? could this be what it is? This certianly isnt a side affect to any illegal Drugs as i do not touch them nor have i ever, i have been dignosed with Bpd and Ptsd! NOTHING else!

Paula P replied: "are you sure of the boder personality disorder diagnosis, as the very fact that you recognise these voices etc as the fantasies that they are, rather than reality may indicate differently. have you checked on some of your medications, as some have very strange side effects. do some research online. if these voices are malevolent, they could be echos from your past, if they are less malevolent, they could be your own voice speaking out about the pain you have suffered, but as a way to disociate."

i dont know who i am? replied: "your just having a bad day I'm on the same anti physhotics your on and i get days like this, you just need to relax and take your mind of things, i didn't complete my dbt introduction but try your mindfullness skills EDIT yes it is pseudo physhcosis its like bout of disassociation it comes and goes but will get better with meds"

Carol replied: "Let your parents know what is happening right now, then see your GP as soon as possible! Let them know that you have been hearing and seeing things, your head was spinning and you felt a sickness in your stomach. They will be able to help you more than we can."

*****SUNNY****** replied: "You need to contact your Dr as soon as you can. Also tell your hubby just so someone knows. Why I cannot answer its very frustrating and scary I am sure. If you call your Dr they will want to see you. Be honest with them. Some times it can take a while before your medication are right, and as things happen they may need to add and change things. I am sorry for what you are going through....praying for you! ((((hug)) because you need one. also for your Dr, they might want to know when it happens ( what if anything happens just before) Its scary but write it down so you can tell your Dr's everything. Also make sure your Dr's have the same info...sometimes that dose not happen, saves you from having to tell them both over and over and they are able to treat better."

lil bit replied: "it sounds more like hallucinations which are a symptom of schizophrenia or certain side effects of some illegal drugs"

shaneris5 replied: "It seems to me as though a change in medication is required: What side effects may occur? Side effects cannot be anticipated. If any develop or change in intensity, inform your doctor as soon as possible. Only your doctor can determine if it is safe for you to continue taking Zyprexa. More common side effects may include: Agitation, change in personality, constipation, ****dizziness****, dry mouth, increased appetite, indigestion, low blood pressure upon standing, sleepiness, tremor, weakness, weight gain Side effects of Effexor may include: Abnormal ejaculation/orgasm, anxiety, blurred vision, constipation, ****dizziness****, dry mouth, impotence, insomnia, ****nausea,**** See Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, at in sections 33 - 34, and examine the website, and use the locators in sections 33 - 34, and section 1, and phone book, and/or various associations for psychiatrists and psychologists, to find the nearest one using EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing therapy). If unable to afford it, or to locate one nearby, contact the county/local mental health agency: any therapy on offer may prove helpful, particularly if combined with appropriate medication. (The following is a variant of EMDR therapy, which has been used successfully for those people suffering from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, insomnia, and anxiety: it is easily learned, quick to use, yet can be very effective. It is easy to be dismissive of it, because it may seem a little strange, but is well worth trying, for at least a few weeks, to see how it effective it is in your case). First, sit comfortably, and take a deep breath. Then, without moving your head, move your eyes from the left, to the right, and back again, taking around a second to do so (say: "a thousand and one": this takes approximately a second). Repeat this procedure (without the words, although you can count, subvocally if you like) 20 times. Then close your eyes and relax. Become aware of any tension or discomfort you feel. Then open your eyes, and take another deep breath, and repeat step one, closing your eyes, and relaxing afterwards, in the same manner. Then, repeat the procedure one last time. Some people may find that this is all they need do: others find that they need 2 sessions in quick succession, but professional treatment is the best option, if you can access it. With practice, you may find that you can employ this technique with your eyes closed, thereby enabling a much wider of opportunity to use in public, without attracting unwanted attention. Professional EMDR is always much preferable, and Opester, (who gives it a glowing recommendation) a therapist with more than 20 years experience, and a former contributor, here, stated that it was one of only 2 disorders which can be completely cured. BPD is addressed in section 15, and DBT is the recommended therapy, and I suggest changing therapy types: the EMDR is likely to be quicker. BPD usually takes a quite considerable time, and Marsha Linehan developed the DBT especially for it. Your current CBT & meds is far from the best option, in my view. Your life: your decision: I have no vested interest in this, as has your psychiatrist."

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